Lubricant Archives ~ Dildo or Dildon't

June 3, 2019

Condom Sense: How to make condoms more fun

Making condoms sound playful is easy.There are tons of cutesy names like love glove, woody hoodie, peter parka…. But making up funny names […]

Lubricant / Sex Tips / Sex Worker Advice / Solo Play / Strap-Ons

June 19, 2017

A lube for every Occasion. Which is best for you?

I recently wrote about how important lube is. So now that you know you want lube, what kind should you try? There […]

Lubricant / Sex Tips / Sex Worker Advice

June 12, 2017

Lube: Why Wetter Is Better

I work in a sex toy store and the most stigmatized but important item that we sell is lube.People seem to get […]

About Me

I'm The Queen of Wands, sex educator, porn star, model, sex blogger, and a bad bitch from the Bronx. I’ve been a manager of some of NYC’s hottest award-winning sex toy stores, and I’m now a regular educator and the manager at Manhattans famous West Village Pleasure Chest, and I’ve been featured as a sex educator in Exxxotica, Cycles and Sex, Sex Expo, Cosmopolitan contributor, and countless podcasts. I’m also polyamorous, thick as hell woman of color, and I'll either rock your world or ruin it as a proud Virgo.