Many folks love hearing dirty talk in the bedroom.
We can lose ourselves in the heat of passion. It can also help us open up and take on a persona that turns us and helps us lose our inhibitions in the most naughty ways. Many people think using dirty talk is something that’s reserved for the bedroom only. It can certainly make sex more enjoyable, but it works in so many other areas of your relationship too.
The biggest sex organ is…?
The brain is considered a more powerful sexual organ than even genitalia because it’s where your sex drive comes from. The right amount of dirty talk will excite the mind. Dirty talking activates all regions of your brain while your body is also getting stimulated. The whispers, moans, and sounds in general accompanied by dirty talk are all processed by the brain’s hearing center.
Sexual tension is the key.
By far the most powerful benefit of talking dirty is that it increases the sexual tension. Sexual tension is that magical feeling that keeps you thinking about each other, wanting to be physically close and gets you completely aroused when you’re in each others company. You can use it as a foreplay to keep your partner thinking about you all day long, while you aren’t even together. A text, a phone call, a note, etc.
As any sex educator will tell you, foreplay is an extremely important part of sex. If you can start with some dirty talk, then you’ll be teasing each other in ways that are just as important as physical foreplay. Set aside a full 20 minutes of just talking dirty to each other before you even remove your clothes and touch each other. You’ll see the difference it makes.
Intensify your Sex
Using dirty talk can enhance and intensify your sex life. You can scream and shout all sorts of filthy, dirty and nasty profanities while your getting it on. You’re also free to use words you probably don’t use in your day to day life. Even words that you might typically find offensive. Even if you may find certain words offensive outside the bedroom, you can take control of the word and use it on your terms, which can be empowering and intoxicating.
Helps you communicate your desires in a sexy way
Unless you’re dating a psychic, typically your partner can’t read your mind. When you vocalize what feels good, what needs some work, etc, then you both benefit. Once you can both say what you like and how you like it, you’re not too far away from saying how it makes you feel. From there, the dirty talk will just flow with some practice!
It can lead to better sex
When you talk honestly, openly, and graphically about what you want to get out of every sexual experience, how can it not lead to better sex? With communication and dirty talk, there are no secrets. No one is forced to try to figure out what that moan or facial expression really means. Sex shouldn’t be a riddle.
Dirty talk gives people permission to surrender to their deepest, darkest, wildest fantasies. Sex is supposed to be dirty, erotic, and most of all fun. Communicating your fantasies and dirty thoughts can also improve intimacy for couples.
Like everything else, it’s fun!!!
Pleasure should be your end game for everything. If it’s not fun, why are you doing it? Don’t take yourself too seriously. If you can loosen up enough to have a good time, laugh about it, and relax, you’ll be amazed by what sort of good time you can have.