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Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)
Body Positivity/Self Care / Foreplay/Mood Setting / Sex Tips
  • September 17, 2018

Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Giving a quality massage is one of those things that sounds easy to do: Oil ‘em up, rub their body in a […]

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Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift
Foreplay/Mood Setting
  • September 10, 2018

Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift

My love language is food and gifts,but I like to think more along the lines of gifting an experience rather then things.Sure, […]

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Dirty Talk Tips
Foreplay/Mood Setting / Sex Tips
  • September 28, 2017

Dirty Talk Tips

Curious about dirty talk but don’t know why you should care.Read why dirty talk can make hot sex even hotter here.First things […]

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Should I Try Dirty Talk?
Foreplay/Mood Setting / Sex Tips
  • September 27, 2017

Should I Try Dirty Talk?

Many folks love hearing dirty talk in the bedroom.We can lose ourselves in the heat of passion. It can also help us […]

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A lube for every Occasion. Which is best for you?
Lubricant / Sex Tips / Sex Worker Advice / Solo Play / Strap-Ons
  • June 19, 2017

A lube for every Occasion. Which is best for you?

I recently wrote about how important lube is. So now that you know you want lube, what kind should you try? There […]

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Peanut Butter & Jelly Toy Pairings
Sex Tips / Solo Play
  • June 7, 2017

Peanut Butter & Jelly Toy Pairings

​Sometimes people come into the shop I work at and want one magical toy to do everything for them. And while I […]

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Splish Splash: Mermaid Masturbation
Sex Tips / Solo Play
  • June 2, 2017

Splish Splash: Mermaid Masturbation

​If you didn’t know, I’m actually a mermaid. I love water and my favorite toys are toys that are waterproof.Whatever genitals you […]

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Pride Edition: BJ tips on Aftermarket Cocks
Sex Tips / Strap-Ons
  • May 29, 2017

Pride Edition: BJ tips on Aftermarket Cocks

​There are tons of BJ tips for factory installed cocks out there I teach a ton of workshops in fact for people […]

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Light my fire. Part Two: Foreplay
Foreplay/Mood Setting / Sex Tips
  • April 26, 2017

Light my fire. Part Two: Foreplay

​Setting the mood and foreplay is an important often overlooked aspect of sex.Increased arousal/lubrication, and intimacy are some key reasons to really […]

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Light my fire. Part One: Mood setting
Foreplay/Mood Setting / Sex Tips
  • April 20, 2017

Light my fire. Part One: Mood setting

Setting the mood and foreplay is an important often overlooked aspect of sex and pleasure. Here’s more info on setting the mood.

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I'm The Queen of Wands, sex educator, porn star, model, sex blogger, and a bad bitch from the Bronx. I’ve been a manager of some of NYC’s hottest award-winning sex toy stores, and I’m now a regular educator and the manager at Manhattans famous West Village Pleasure Chest, and I’ve been featured as a sex educator in Exxxotica, Cycles and Sex, Sex Expo, Cosmopolitan contributor, and countless podcasts. I’m also polyamorous, thick as hell woman of color, and I'll either rock your world or ruin it as a proud Virgo.

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