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You Bet Your Ass… So You Want To Try Anal

So you want to try Anal?Anal sex can be a fun new activity for people. The taboo nature of it, is a thrill in itself. Ultimately the area is full

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How to be the best customer at every adult store

This list is for newbies and pros alike. Whether it’s your first time or the staff knows you by name; we can all use a refresher on how to not make

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A Complete Beginners Guide to Strap On Sex

Here is the link to the article. I was quoted.  By Lane MooreMar 15, 2016 The idea that a cisgender woman can strap on a dildo and a harness that

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Ode To The Magic Wand

If you know sex toys, or even if you don’t you’ve probably seen the Magic wand.The Hitachi Magic Wand​ (renamed as Magic Wand Original​ or simply referred to as Magic Wand​) is a plug

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Guide to Pegging and Choosing the Perfect Products

​Originally posted on the Stockroom blog. Here is my guest post.Guest blogger Carly S’s Guide to Pegging and Choosing the Perfect Products: Pegging is the act of a woman wearing

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What is ‘Crash Pad’ you say?

If you’re not familiar with CrashPad, you should be!! About them from their site: “Based on the Award-Winning feminist queer porn The Crash Pad, Queer Filmaker Shine Louise Houston brings to the

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Crash Pad Episode 231: James Darling and Sapphire Sexcapade

If you’re not familiar with ‘Crash Pad’ check out my post here. Now on to the dirty stuff!!!If I was to say I’m excited for a Scene with James Darling would be an

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Aphrodisiacs and sex toys. A match made in Heaven.

Need some invigoration​​​​ in the bedroom? Sometimes life is so stressful that the last thing on our mind is sex. However, physical intimacy is an important and healthy part of

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Single on Valentine’s Day? Who cares!

Sure, Valentine’s day is known as Single Awareness day but that doesn’t have to be depressing! Take the day to Treat Yo Self. Self love is the best love anyway.

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Crash Pad Episode 233: Viceroy and Munnin

If you’re unfamiliar with Crashpad, what are you waiting for? Read more about them here. This episode according to the Keymaster. “Munnin discovers Viceroy tied and muzzled, a perfect plaything for

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3 Women Share What It’s *Really* Like To Give a Rusty Trombone

I was one of those 3 women, because I think talking about sex acts that aren’t as “mainstream” help to normalize all acts of sex and pleasure. See the responses

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Crash Pad Episode 234: April Flores and Milcah Halili

From CrashPad. (if you want to know more about Crashpad Click Here) ​Voluptuous vixen April Flores is back with her IRL sweetie Milcah Halili. “April has brought a bag full

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Rusty Trombones: The Final Frontier?

I recently answered some questions for Cosmo about giving a Rusty Trombone, so I figured why not give my own tips. Right from the source so to speak as someone

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Warm: Sex toy warmer review

​Warm is your invitation to enjoy your toys a whole new way. Safely heat your favorite intimacy enhancers to create an irresistible sensual experience you can share together or savor

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Sola Sync: Silicone Rechargeable Wireless Massager Review

​The powerful wireless remote massager Sync is here! Our innovative powerful body massager is sleek and stylish! Sync was designed with an extra long handle that allows you to reach all

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Light my fire. Part One: Mood setting

​Setting the mood and foreplay is an important often overlooked aspect of sex and pleasure. Increased arousal/lubrication, as well as intimacy are some key reasons to really sex it up

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Crash Pad Episode 237: Arabelle Raphael and Devorah

Arabelle Raphael and Devorah turn business into pleasure“When a client no-shows for their doubles booking, sex workers Arabelle Raphael and Devorah don’t let a good bed go to waste. Arabelle

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Light my fire. Part Two: Foreplay

Setting the mood and foreplay is an important often overlooked aspect of sex. Increased arousal/lubrication, and intimacy are some key reasons to really sex it up and set the mood

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Crash Pad Episode 238: La Muxer Diosa and Mars the Prince

From Crashpad “Mars the Prince makes an offering at the shrine of La Muxer Diosa" “La Muxer Diosa’s royal worshipper Mars the Prince knows how to please their Goddess. After

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Elvie Kegel Trainer Review

Elvie is an award-winning exercise tracker for your pelvic floor. the elvie is a small pebble-shaped pod designed to help you exercise and strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. Using Bluetooth,

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Rianne S Bella Body Wand Review

​About: From Rianne S. “External full body massager. Completely waterproof. Queen of orgasms Bella is the Italian word for beautiful. That’s exactly how you will feel using the Bella by RIANNE S, because

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Happy Masturbation May. (AKA Why you should touch yourself!)

When you think of masturbation, what comes to mind? Do you think it’s dirty or serves no purpose? Well, you’re missing out on some great benefits. ​Helps improve mood and

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Fun Factory Moody Review

​About: From Fun Factory’s Website “What are you in the mood for? G-spot or prostate play?  Enjoying the ripple of a textured toy as it massages you on the way in

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We-Vibe Rave Review

​About: From We-Vibe “The soft edges and powerful rumble of Rave by We-Vibe stimulate your senses and satisfy your G-spot. The unique asymmetrical shape transforms your gentle movements or twists

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Liberator Flip Ramp Review

​About: From the Liberator Site “Versatility was never so sexy. The Flip Ramp is the perfect combination of functionality and discretion. When open, this Shape is an inclined Ramp that allows for

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Pride Edition: BJ tips on Aftermarket Cocks

​There are tons of BJ tips for factory installed cocks out there I teach a ton of workshops in fact for people looking to perfect their techniques. But what about

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Splish Splash: Mermaid Masturbation

​If you didn’t know, I’m actually a mermaid. I love water and my favorite toys are toys that are waterproof. Whatever genitals you have  water masturbation provides plenty of opportunities

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My advice for moving on after a broken heart

​Breaking up sucks. Period. Bottom Line. Now what? Time does indeed heal all wounds. But there are some deeper ways to look at this heavily recited mantra. Don’t give yourself

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Crash Pad Episode 240: Andre Shakti and Dante DeMoan

From CrashPad. (if you want to know more about Crashpad Click Here) Andre Shakti gets rough and rowdy with with her favorite wolfie, Dante DeMoan. After thumping his chest red,

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Sex Worker Witch: Magic Potions For You

If you didn’t know, not only am I a powerful Witch but I am also a proud sex worker. I have done everything in the industry from escorting and stripping,

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Peanut Butter & Jelly Toy Pairings

​Sometimes people come into the shop I work at and want one magical toy to do everything for them. And while I hope they find it, that probably isn’t the

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We-Vibe Nova Review

​About: From We-Vibe “Nova by We-Vibe™ combines the pleasure of G-spot stimulation with powerful clitoral vibration. The unique design flexes with movement to stay in contact with your clitoris. Nova rumbles

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We-Vibe Wish Review

​About: From We-Vibe “Sink into the plush power of Wish by We-Vibe. Experience a new sensation with our exclusive PowerPulse™ vibration. The soft exterior and rumbly vibrations of Wish by We-Vibe

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Lube: Why Wetter Is Better

​I work in a sex toy store and the most stigmatized but important item that we sell is lube. People seem to get offended when you ask if they have

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Femme Supremacy: No you won’t make me feel bad for being feminine.

​With the release of the new Womanizer Go Product I keep seeing people complain about it. I’ve heard everything from “women like things other then lipstick”, to it’s just “not

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#Resist

​Now that it’s officially June, it’s Pride month. Pride in this current climate has a theme of resistance. I’m fortunate enough to work for a company that not only supports

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A lube for every Occasion. Which is best for you?

I recently wrote about how important lube is. So now that you know you want lube, what kind should you try? There are benefits for certain types of lubes for

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Pheromones. Make Life Sexier

​Have you ever found someone particularly sexy without knowing why? It could be that you are lured in by their pheromones, invisible chemical signals that can subtly alter a person’s

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Hot Sex Without Melting?

​I’m fat and always feel extra hot (temperature wise!). So in the summer I feel particularly unsexy. Actual picture of me! You don’t have to be fat to be too

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Shake the Ground: Strongest Vibes out there

​There’s lots of reasons why someone would need or want a really strong vibe, and there is nothing shameful about it. Knowing what you want sexually helps not only your

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Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign

Why do we even have to explain why pleasure is important for women? When I’m talking about women in this content I am speaking of people who have vaginas (because

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Crash Pad Episode 242: Rain and Rose

From CrashPad. (if you want to know more about Crashpad Click Here) Rose soaks up Rain“When Rain arrives fresh from a protest with an eyeful of tear gas, Rose has

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How to create the perfect sex playlist

​Nothing sets or kills the mood more than putting on some music in the bedroom. Music can help you feel comfortable and relaxed while having sex, which is super important.

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Jelly Rubber Bummer

​Jelly sex toys are the only sex toy thing I will ever say a hard no to. It is the material that most people are familiar with, especially if they

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Crash Pad Episode 243: Cinnamon Maxxine and Amani Luxe

From Crashpad:Cinnamon Maxxine and Amani Luxe femme hard “Take the batteries out of the fire alarm, cuz fierce, fat femmes Cinnamon Maxxine and Amani Luxe are smoking hot! True to her name,

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Why you should pay for your porn

#payforyourporn! But seriously. Who actually pays for porn? However, there is some demographic research on this topic. One study showed that in states that have passed conservative laws about sexuality,

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How to Treat Cam Girls

Camming has forever changed the adult industry. Cam models are essentially DIY porn stars who work from home. Most performers have ultimate control over what they do, when they do

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Sex Toy Materials: Is your toy safe?

Sex Toy Materials are super important There are two main types that break down into more specific materials that I’ll explain. Basically there are porous materials, which means they absorb

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Strip Club 101

When you hear strip club what comes to mind? The places where slutty girls take married men’s money. Where the women clearly have low self esteem, or perhaps women that

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Deep Throating: Tips from a wanna be sword swallower

​The process of swallowing a sword involves more than just lining everything up and letting gravity do its thing. In order to successfully swallow a sword, a performer must learn

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I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but…

While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lotof room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media

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Your Vulva is normal, you should love it

​For anyone with a vulva, we have been conditioned to strive for the perfect vulva. So of course we have all at point or another questioned if our vagina and

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Sex isn’t always Penetration

Sex in general doesn’t have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual. How YOU choose

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Anal Fun Doesn’t Have To Be Penetration

I bet you always thought anal sex was when you penetrate the anus huh? ​Sex in general doesn’t have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act

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Figuring out which is the right porn for you

I actually love porn. As someone who is a feminist I know it can be surprising to hear how much I love porn, especially when I know there is some

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Custom Porn

So let’s say you read my last post (click here if you didn’t) and now you know exactly what porn you love and you want more of it, but there

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Butt Toys Guide

There’s so many options! That’s the number one thing I hear in the store I work in. So here’s a handy guide to help you at least narrow down the

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Take any review with a grain of salt

Shopping for a sex toy can be overwhelming. The number one thing I hear is “there’s so many choices!”Reading sex toy reviews can certainly help you choose your next toy

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Crash Pad Episode 246: Cosmic and Miss Yum

From CrashPad. (if you want to know more about Crashpad Click Here) “Cosmic takes Miss Yum’s birthday spanking to a whole other level, adding a birthday flogging, a birthday whipping,

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Crash Pad Episode 247: Alexa Braeburn and Julie Aurora

(If you want to know more about Crashpad Click Here) From Crashpad about the episode “Julie Aurora returns 10 YEARS after first visiting the Crash Pad. WOW! Alexa Braeburn’s here

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Should I Try Dirty Talk?

Many folks love hearing dirty talk in the bedroom. We can lose ourselves in the heat of passion. It can also help us open up and take on a persona

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Dirty Talk Tips

Curious about dirty talk but don’t know why you should care. Read why dirty talk can make hot sex even hotter here. First things first. Anyone who tries something new

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Don't be scared of toys

Toys don’t have to be a solo endeavor.There are lots of toys marketed to couples, but really any toy that you want to use with a partner is a couples

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Creating a Love Altar

​A great way to focus energy and intent is to create a sacred space for love or passion. A love altar is a wonderful space for manifesting desire, passion and

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How to discover your Patron Deity

What is a Patron Deity?A patron is literally defined as a person who gives financial or other support to a person, organization, cause, or activity. A patron deity can be

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