Plus Size Lingerie Archives ~ Dildo or Dildon't

October 31, 2017

If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!

One of my least favorite things to hear is “I need to lose weight to fit this”I’ve heard it all before. You […]

October 25, 2017

Plus Size Lingerie Brands I Love

As a Fat Femme I looooooooove lingerie. But it’s hard to find things that I like, that also fit. Especially if you’re […]

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I'm The Queen of Wands, sex educator, porn star, model, sex blogger, and a bad bitch from the Bronx. I’ve been a manager of some of NYC’s hottest award-winning sex toy stores, and I’m now a regular educator and the manager at Manhattans famous West Village Pleasure Chest, and I’ve been featured as a sex educator in Exxxotica, Cycles and Sex, Sex Expo, Cosmopolitan contributor, and countless podcasts. I’m also polyamorous, thick as hell woman of color, and I'll either rock your world or ruin it as a proud Virgo.

2 weeks ago by makeupandsin Happy National Sex Toy Day! If you found one toy you love, or you're like me and always want to try new toys today is the day to celebrate. Toys give orgams not intimacy and are great tools of pleasure.
2 weeks ago by makeupandsin Sex toys are for everyone. Think outside of the bullet and try something new. This ring from @oxballs is one of my favorite to reccomend to folks new to rings. Its thick which helps distribute the pressure. And of course its stretchy to fit a variety of bodies. #pleasurechest #sexpositive #sexblogger #sexeducation #bodypositivity
2 weeks ago by makeupandsin For me Christmas is November 1st until the new year so enjoy all the pictures of me matching my nails to doing red and green for the next few weeks #NailedIt #sexblogger #sexeducation #bodypositivity #blogger
2 weeks ago by makeupandsin This year I was one of the readers choice blogs and it means so much to me. I'll be doing some giveaways soon so make sure you have all your friends follow me too! #kinkly #blogger #sexblogger #sexeducation #bodypositivity #bodypositive
2 weeks ago by makeupandsin Im always happy when I get to teach about Pleasure and include plus size and POC people in my presentations. How do you make your work more inclusive? #sexed #sexblogger #sexeducation #bodypositivity #bodypositive #blogger
1 week ago by makeupandsin Exxxotica is always fun. I love showing people the tools they have available to maximize their pleasure and their partner(s) #pleasurechest #sexpositive #sexblogger #sexeducation #bodypositivity #bodypositive #blogger
7 days ago by makeupandsin Tried something new with my makeup. Can you tell what? . . #makeup
6 days ago by makeupandsin What do you think? Did he capture my essence. #caricature
4 days ago by makeupandsin Something about this shirt reminds me of college and I'm not mad at it. #effyourbeautystandards
3 days ago by makeupandsin Has anyone else been watching #mandalorian
2 days ago by makeupandsin We survived playing monopoly together. We can do anything!
4 hours ago by makeupandsin Hows that for the #tenyearchallenge #10yearchallenge